Relationship Counseling

Relationship Counseling is very prevalent in the 21st century as the concept of relationship has evolved so does their problems. It is now no longer limited to communication problems, fidelity etc however it has introduced new love problems in relationships related to equality, respect, decision making and comforting behaviours. With the advancement of gender equality, the preferences of women and their expectation from their partners has undergone a phenomenal change. Now they are no longer dependent on the male for family finances. Relationships may seem abstract but it is based on strong pillars of trust, emotions, respect and patience. Any tremor in any of these pillars shakes the whole construct of relationship so it’s important to find a balance. But the question arises how to find a balance? How to know what’s been cooking in his/her mind? How to know whether he/she thinks of the future with you? Am I better than his/her ex? There is no shortcut in strengthening these pillars and you don’t have to verbally ask these questions however you can get these answers with time, patience plays a major role here. Relationships require time, energy, patience, money, emotions and resilience to be successful. The foundation of any relationship is a construct of mutual agreement of individuals about how and what they want from each other. Oftentimes the needs of individuals weren’t communicated effectively which further gravitates distress and happiness among couples. Relationship Therapists work towards making an abstract connection among couples so that they can communicate and resolve their problems on their own. To find an effective relationship counselor isn’t easy as nowadays everyone with a degree in psychology considers themselves a therapist. Therapy doesn’t only include listening or making notes and repeating the same reatment over and over again. Each and every individual is different with their socio-political backgrounds and circumstances which brings them together, making treatments with a binary understanding of construct is preposterous to couples relationships. Relationship counselors at the marriage fit provide a caring, supportive and non-judgmental environment to help you find a way through any difficulties you may be facing in your relationship. Together we will first help you to identify the issues or problems you are facing in your relationship. If you decide couple counseling is the way forward for both of you, you will embark on a series of short-term counselling sessions – anything between six and twelve sessions is normal, but it will depend on the issues you are experiencing. For some couples, counselling is the start of a long process of discovery while for others, a few sessions of counselling may be all they need to move through a rough patch. You will be able to discuss your expectations with your counsellor.