Marriage Counseling

Marriage counseling traces its history back to the early 19th century, it was first practiced by Germany in the early 1920s to improve the EUGENICS (Quality of genetics, controlling population) and later been followed by the world, rest is history. Christian marital counseling has been aggressively popular among western countries, having a diverse mix of cultures, adapting western culture, and continuous shift to nuclear families. Marital therapy has been promoted by various social services and government agencies to increase awareness about the relationship. In India, family courts have been set up for redressal of all marriage disputes and to provide effective verdicts, they also mandated that couples need to undergo basic marriage counseling to get some perspective to resolve issues. The main aim of family court is to avoid matrimonial litigation, and if possible find a way to reconcile the couple and keep the family intact. India is a multicultural society with a migrating population for work, business and geographic perspective, with different cultures, comes different sets of changes and cross-cultural communication problems. These bring a rich transition to Indian society shifting from joint families to more isolated nuclear families which means people from different ethnic backgrounds, cultures, social backgrounds getting married are bound to relationship communication breakdown. Earlier in India families lived together under the same roof, major decisions were to be taken by elders and their decisions were respected, certain disagreement leads to husband wife communication problems. Counselling for marital problems is a way to ostensibly solve the underlying problems without disrupting the inner peace and harmony among family members. In rural India or with some conservative families, elder members, panchayat PANCH’s are still given preference to solve their marital conflict, considered as marriage counsellors, without having a formal degree and their opinions are mostly biased towards their religious or preferential orientation. It is important to recognise and acknowledge that each person, including your dearest friend, have a unique personality, perception, set of values and history which influences their judgement so relying on them for marriage guidance is not something you should consider. In terms of seeking advice, you must incline towards a licensed marital and family therapists as they have experience in the treatment of similar marital problems and trained towards separating their private and professional life. Certified Marriage counselors will always consider solutions aligned with your best interest As the shifting towards nuclear families from joint families is more and more prevalent, individuals feel lonely, their interpersonal connection with maternal or paternal family is far more superficial than ever before and have observed mental problems by happiness index survey conducted by MHA. Most relationships are to get strained and face marriage problems with time and interaction, which may result in failure to function properly and implicate self-reinforcing, maladaptive patterns, these patterns take the form of “relationship communication breakdown”. There could be many reasons such as insecure attachment, ego, jealousy, anger, greed, arrogance, poor interaction, ill health, third parties issues etc, changes in situations like financial state, physical health, and influence of other family members may have a profound effect on conduct and the way you reciprocate interpersonal relationship problems. Almost every counselor in the world says they are a marital counselor, but most never received any training. Often, they got a degree in psychology and they believe they can do it. Marriage consultation isn’t just a person with one issue, but it’s about two people, two issues, the interaction and dynamics of those issues and real lives are being affected by their marital problems. Marriage counseling isn’t just about husband and wife communication problems but it’s a skill that requires rigorous training and hard work and hence requires marriage counseling experts. The Marriage Fit has proven its efficacy with substantial track records and satisfied clients. Our therapeutic course is strongly focussed on advanced EFT (Emotionally Focussed Therapy) and the combination of rhythmic and sustained activities with closely monitoring oxytocin levels. Each of our therapists holds a minimum of a Master’s degree in psychology and goes through a rigorous selection process and training. Subsequently, each therapist to become a marriaige counselor goes through 3 months of in-house training on different tools and intervention skills & methodology. Our marriage counseling specialists are far more experienced than others in terms of quantity and quality because a typical psychologist sees an average of 6-8 clients a day but here we attend 3-4 clients in a day. Principles of effective marriage counseling involve continuous evolution of therapeutic techniques and hence our marriage psychologist implores every doubt, and situation-based problem and designs a new course of action for every individual as well as a couple, as here we believe different issues and should be resolved distinctively.

Why Choose Us

Our marriage counseling specialists are far more experienced than others in terms of quantity and quality because a typical psychologist sees an average of 6-8 clients a day but here we attend 3-4 clients in a day.