Premarital Counseling

(Here we make it our goal to create your marriage a place that feels like the safest place on earth for you) You might be having a love marriage or arrange marriage, whether you find your spouse or your parents/ friends do, Does that give you the absolute assurance that you know him very well, and you won’t ever have any problem or differences? Pre-marriage counselling ensures you to solve all the potential problems post-marriage, before-hand. Premarital counselling questions need to be considered before making a serious commitment to your potential partner, it’s the need for a relationship. Undergoing a detailed analysis of premarital counselling topics with your therapist will help you understand each other better, asking the question that you might not have thought of asking, discussing the concerns and facts that you think of otherwise. Research shows that 30% of the people who underwent premarital counselling experience a higher level of satisfaction post-marriage and 30% decrease in the likelihood of divorce. Marriage counselling before marriage helps you build a solid foundation of marriage by unearthing some of the future problems that you aren’t facing right now, but finding such problems and resolving them before they fester help you build a solid foundation and ensures you a happy marriage. You may have some expectation on what your marriage will be or should be. Pre-engagement counselling helps you build a blueprint of how your marriage looks to your fiancè. Sometimes you may have some idea of what the marriage should look like, most men aren’t vocal about their idea of marriage but that doesn’t mean they don’t have any expectations. Discussing them in the premarital counselling program, helps you overcome and sensitize yourselves with various aspects of marriage ranging from finances to parenting to child upbringing and bring both of you to the common ground which brings respect to marriage expectations. Premarital counselling questions inculpate discussion about some important topics such as: Would a potential husband be expecting me to work and be a homemaker together? Do you want him to help with household chores? Would he be expecting you to cook regularly? How are you going to manage after having a baby? Would both of you be looking forward to hiring someone for basic household chores? Generally, the in-laws come into picture when it comes to these questions and often cause a relationship communication breakdown. Premarital counselling techniques guide you to be very clear about where you stand on these points and helps both of you have to make adjustments. There are some things maybe you or your fiancè are very particular about, for these questions you need to clarify as these are the stepping stone of the relationship and we believe you don’t want to risk it. Pre-engagement counselling surface such questions and carefully negotiate the terms considering both of your best mutual interests 90% of the couples agree that pre-marriage counselling helps them negotiate their future problems with inlaws and brings harmony to their marriage and others say it was okay and doesn’t make much of a difference. We are products of experiences, circumstances and environments, everyone has baggage and some deep dark secret that should be kept secret for the better good. There are things no matter how long you stay together that she/he will never be comfortable to tell you, we believe you must respect her decision and wait until she tells you, pre-marriage counselling provides you a set of exercises and activities that help you develop resilience and patience for a happy married life. You are about to start a new life together, and a fresh start with a clean slate we value that but these things may cause potential damage in future needed a resolution. Pre-engagement counselling facilitates such steamy secrets/topics and build a boundary to make things simple and acceptable. Discussing about children, pre-marriage is very important because it’s not about whether the other wants the child or not, but the number, timing of conceiving, stability, the parenting style etc such things left undiscussed till date in life may cause serious problems to marriage and should be addressed proactively. Communication is the key to any relationship, being afraid of your partner’s reactions, holding back what concerns you will inculcate disaster. Pre-marital counselling provides you with enriching activities and guides you about how to handle talking/ express yourself during a conflict. Our certified psychologists understand that arguments will happen, but how you go about it, act during and after will affect your relationship hence we ensure both of you understand each other and handle conflicts peacefully. Pre-marital counselling online is available on our website for both the partners, it facilitates discussion about concerning topics and guides you, how to anticipate and resolve potential conflicts once you are married. Our certified psychologists after a thorough analysis by judging both your response under the situation to provide a compatibility score work towards aligning your interest for a happy married life. In pre-marriage counselling equal opportunities will be given to both the individuals to talk, discuss their beliefs, expectations and suggest you to actively participate in each assignment to study your partner. “More than pre-wedding shoots and pre-wedding sleepovers, our society needs more of a pre-marriage counselling”

Why Choose Us

We understand concerns about opening your problems with a third person is a difficult decision to make but you are required to understand the complexity of relationship and love for each other. We help you resolve your problems with advanced scientific techniques alongside maintaining privacy.